oh get well soon Nea! i got poisoning maybe week ago, still not feeling very well..

well today i learnt a bad new, my grandma is at hospital she already had paralytic stroke and infarct, and my mom is planning to take her to live with us, that means im gonna take care of her, i should not be annoyed by this fact but my bad side doesnt want this, geez im so selfish, she is like all old people it aint easy, and if something will happen while i will take care of her im gonna lock myself to mental hospital, because i know i will not take this.. and my mom know this, so we are kinda stuck with this situation, hope we will solve this difficulty

Sorry to hear about your grandma Erika. Hope everything works out as best as possible.

I spent an hour in the rain trying to get our stores forklift unstuck. One of our drivers got the back end stuck on a curb. I did get some good news in the form of a job offer! Hope all goes well tomorrow.

thx Erika hopr u get completly good soon
and omg thats a really difficult situation...just try to taken it easy hoe u get through it all good hon

thank you guys *mwahz*

i hope everything will be ok, and we will find solution, if not im gonna go to witch to find out if somebody cursed on me, because i started to believe that something is not right that all bad things always happens to me, everytime im tryin to be happy sth happens

Also sorry to hear about your grandma, Erika. It's always difficult when you have an older relative come stay with you. A couple of years ago my 72 year old aunt came to live at my Mum and Dad's house, and their usual routine went straight out the window.

Unfortunately, and I know it's a cruel thing to have to say, but if she's frail, you just have to accept that there's not a lot you can do to change the situation. All I can suggest is try to be patient with her, it's probably going to be just as difficult for her as it will be for you and your Mum, especially if she used to be independent if she lived on her own.

Think of it this way: She's spending precious time with people she loves, and during that time, you'll be making her happy. And that's whats really important.

I managed to do that when I worked in a warehouse a few years back. Well, I drove over a pothole and beached the front end. Luckily we had another forktruck and just lifted it enough to jam some wood under the wheel..

Anyway, WAMT is I found out that I'm going to be going on some seriously long distance trips in the next few weeks with work, already on the list is Newcastle, Cardiff, Leeds and Dublin (in Ireland). Now these are normally real pain-in-the-arse 12 hour day trips, but I've been told that because of the amount of work involved these are all going to overnight hotel trips, and Ireland will probably be a double overnighter. There may even be a trip to Edinburgh, just a few miles away from where Cogglesz lives..

At least it's all paid for, with some serious overtime included..

I'm sorry for you guys

and for Erika I know what you mean, before my grandfather passed on (few years ago) me and my mother were living with him since I was 6, and the last two years he wasn't as healthy as he was before, so the times he was ill were a bit harder times, naturally

you guys should of had some of the experiences i had with my grandmom before she passed away at i think 98 years old

she passed away last year but well she left really good funny mermories for me
but she wasnt like a regular grand mom
but she was the best and probably the best family member person i have ever had in my life

old people are kinda like kids and are easily amazed or kinda like a dog (sorry if i offered anyone haha but its the truth ,,, if you wana kid get a dog its the same ,,, or an old person )

like my grandmom would tell me how strong i was when i packed in things from shooping
but then i wake up and she would give me the finger as soon as i woke up and say fuck you mother fucker and then we both fall over laughing
good times
or i wake up and she tell me how everyone was so fucking crazy except me and her


but really you may think its a bad situtation but make the best out of it


its like dick you get the dick it may be some good dick or bad dick but you cant keep it forever and its not going to be there for long but try to enjoy it while you got it

thank you guys, i appreciate it, ya all are right..
we are trying to find a solution, our flat is small its not enough space for two people, and for 3 it would be a nightmare.
and my all mental affection started when my grandpa passed away, we took care of him, so i dont think i will handle this again, there must be the solution

this topic became like my diary i should start writing my own private diary

don't worry erika, its best u tell people your problems somtimes, it can help u feel much better and people can give u advice to perhaps make the problem more calm than really bad if not completly fixing the problem.


we all gotta let steam off somtimes, and heres the place to do it,

true

a fuckin gipsy woman cursed me and ma friend today cuz we refused to give her money she said we will suffer in our lives and well get uterus cancer tonight of course i dont beleive in that shit but it annoyed me and shocked me but feel(x) cheered meh up in the anecdote thread

oh shit that sux, im scare of gipsy womans, once a gipsy woman with childrens came to me asking for food or old clothes, i gave her food, some clothes i dont wear, and some money and she blessed me, said something weird and bowed her head..
well nothing good happened to me, so im sure nothing bad will happen to you, the next time when gipsy woman will want to curse you cross your fingers, sometimes when i see gipsy woman looking at me with angry face i cross my fingers

wait if she blessed u and it worked means that now she cursed me itll work too omg lol...*calm yourself nea its nothing its bullshit lmao* awe and i bought so many nice stuff today lmfao

no i mean nothing happened at all, she wished me all the best, luck money and other good things, but i dont have these good things lol, so nothing bad will happen to you