I hope you'll get better soon Aquila. Sounds awful! But yeah some girls are just fucked up!

Like my last girlfriend. She fucked me up pretty badly too. But then again you'll just have to either forget about it or be as equal (or more) mean to her as she was to you. The easiest way is to forget about her and move on I think - at least revenge didn't make me feel that much better... But then again it did a little bit in that moment so maybe it's ok.

At least there'll always be many other women for you out there.

Love is giving someone the power to destroy you and trusting them not to.

I hate it.

jesus christ i've never thought of it like that before, ill need to remember that


the things you learn here are crazy lol

Mate, that's harsh. She may be a bitch but hoping for the baby to die is a bit bad. Fair does you're well pissed off at the mo: understandable, but wishing death like that isn't on.

Hope you're feeling a bit better today. Block her from MSN then she can't get back in touch telling you stuff you don't want to hear. Surprised you never blocked her anyway if it was 5 yrs ago. She'd have been blocked straight after we split up

Go out, get pissed, shag some birds, have a smoke, make some music, do something..anything to take your mind off it if you can. Easier said than done: been there before..but only way is to keep busy or to have a big emo session and try to get rid of the grief in one go then move on.

Take it easy Aqu.

Ya the stillborn comment was a tad harsh, even if it was meant as a joke. Sorry about that.

She was on msn because we attempted to reconcile a friendship earlier this year. She mentioned her and her husband had been trying for a year, so now it's pretty clear why she wanted to get back in contact with me. Come to think of it, she even called me when she got married. It's like every time she has a superiority trip she just wants to rub my face in it. I should have seen what she was doing but, well, it's happened now. I've told her to fuck off out of my life in a special way.

Bitch.

You tell her Aquila. One day when she's all sore and huge from the pregnancy, run into her w/ a hot ass lady on your arm.

Well it seems to me she still likes you..but has to tell you how great her life is for her benefit in a weird way to justify you two not being together. Does that make sense the way I've written it ??

Even tho she has a husband and a baby on the way, her life (in her head) still isn't as happy as she possibly would have been with you. She's telling you her news so that on the outside if she tells enough people she's happy then she will be..but in reality she isn't 100% happy. It's a false front. Pretending to be one thing, when the reality isn't all that great.
Especially if you only speak when SHE has good news.

Have ytou not got any recent good news to fire back at her? New job with good wage, house, new g/friend who's better looking than her?? That kind of thing. Turn it around mate and make her see that YOU are doing fine without her.

That was a great advise in my opinion rsshawn! I'm gonna try to remember that one!

You don't just ask someone to marry you...

I might be 17 but I'm not stupid

Couldn't have put it in a more disturbing way myself!



Cheers weirdo. I can always count on you for a military-esque butt kicking for feeling down.



Ehmmm...no. Didn't have a camera back then. I would've deleted the photos by now anyway....and I know your story!


Would if I could. She's still got some close contacts with some of my best friends so she would know the truth eventually.

...and don't worry mate. I'm feeling a lot better now.

Thanx

Aquila Glad you're feeling better mate.

*emo rant*
My ex girlfreind has been ripping me apart..i love her..and she has told me shit like i will never see you again dudes what can i do...sshe keeps going round dodgy blokes houses:/ dudes how can you help it